Do you check your phone all day long? Have you ever tried to speak to someone about something important only to have them distracted by their phone or something else? It sucks.
These days, we have endless distractions. So, how do we stay oriented to what matters, and how do we not let our business distract us away from the relationships we care most about? Well, I found someone who knows a lot about this stuff and interviewed him. His insights are a breath of fresh air. And, he says it's all about getting systematized and setting boundaries. Listen now.
Do you check your phone all day long? Have you ever tried to speak to someone about something important only to have them distracted by their phone or something else? It sucks.
These days, we have endless distractions. So, how do we stay oriented to what matters, and how do we not let our business distract us away from the relationships we care most about? Well, I found someone who knows a lot about this stuff and interviewed him. His insights are a breath of fresh air. And, he says it's all about getting systematized and setting boundaries. Listen now.
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Do you have someone in your life who when you try to help them, they just won't follow through? I mean, you have really good advice and insight, but it doesn't go anywhere. Or maybe you have a friend or family member that needs help but no matter how hard you try, they won't get help. If so, listen to this one.
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If you are thinking of divorce, you've probably spent hours analyzing things. I just want you to consider a few more points, just in case. Listen to this.
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Listen to my take in this episode.
Want to help couples better? Want to learn about the real issue in your partnership? This interview will shed some serious light on what's below all the surface fights. If you like attachment science, you'll love this one.
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Women ask me all the time, "How do I get him to open up?" It's an important question as some of us guys are pretty emotionally jammed up. But there are a few things you can do to help, without feeling resentful. Listen in!
Years ago, I watched a woman re-pattern a baby's movements after a tough Caesarean birth. It was so powerful. It all happened in a few minutes. She was a baby whisperer.
Turns out this woman is quite the healer. From tantra facilitator to couples therapist, Annie Brooke has some serious skills.
I've had sessions with her, and my son did a water session with her when he was six months old.
I think you'll like this interview I recently did with her. We covered a ton of ground. Conflict, attachment, and the satisfaction cycle.
If you are not a parent, this is pretty interesting. I think you can learn a few things here. If you are a parent, there's such a thing as too much parenting. The helicopter or enabling parent.
Is there such a thing as "over-attachment"? I think so. In this short episode my wife and I dig into this touchy subject. I say touchy because parents are soooo sensitive to criticism. Check it out!
Do you know the fastest way to get the connection back? Or how about how to feel accepted and not judged by your partner? Listen here as I offer you a few tips to get both.
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Are there really any risks with falling hard for someone? You know, when you're just in the zone with this person and you lose track of time and space...
Even though it feels so amazing (almost addictive), there are major downsides to the "honeymoon period" that are just underneath the surface, your relationship will be at risk unless you know what to look for.
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(0:20) Introduction - action step
(1:45) Is it possible to fall in love too fast?
(4:50) What can you do when you’re In this position?
(7:05) Action step
My friend Tami Simon, founder & CEO of Sounds True, shares her insights about the spiritual path and relationships. Her decades of interviewing the world's leading authorities on spirituality, wellness, and relationships shines in this podcast interview. From spiritual gurus to CEO's of major companies, learn why relationships are key to a brighter future.
Do you ever wish your partner, or ex, would just change? I mean, if only they would, everything would be awesome, right? Not so fast.
But... there is one thing you can do under the radar to get them to change. Check it out and listen in...
It took Kimberly 6.5 years to heal her body and have sex without pain. Her vulnerability and knowledge is huge and she shares it all on this podcast. She did over 800 sessions with women working on their pelvic floor. Gulp. If you find yourself still in a freeze response after being hurt this morning, or from years ago, you'll want to check this out...
This week's podcast is all about passive people and walking on eggshells. In fact, there's a fun new term "Fragilizing". Listen to find out what the hell that means...
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Are you a caregiver who is on the verge of burnout? What is the difference between the central nervous system and the autonomic nervous system? What happens if I misread a person's face, especially my partner? Listen to this fascinating interview with Polyvagal theory's founder, Stephen Porges.
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In this episode we explore your confidence. Why is it more attractive than looks? Or is it? Listen in as we quickly explore this terrain and listen for the challenge at the end.
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(0:40) Open applications for DPIR Program (9 month training)
(3:30) What is confidence
(5:10) Why confidence is more attractive than looks
(7:50) Action step
For the 3rd time, we bring on polymath and human behavior master Dr. John Demartini. In this episode you're going to be confronted and learn a TON! Dig in and let us know what you learned.
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(3:50) Introduction Dr John Demartini
(5:30) The biggest human problem according to Dr John Demartini
(7:40) Planning on money and relationships
(12:05) Investing money in yourself instead of investing somewhere else
(18:55) Saving 10% of your income
(20:40) Why opposites attract
(31:05) Physiological effect of negative self-talk
(33:50) Social media and auto immune disorders and
(37:35) Psychological ways to heal your gut
(39:25) Why we repeat painful patterns
(41:50) How the “Healer” type of people can get out of that perspective
(43:50) How waking up and evolving can set you apart from others
(51:20) Relationships where women assume the role of a mother and a maid
(1:04:10) About delegating tasks
(1:05:20) Final thoughts
(1:06:50) Action step
Do you ever wonder why your children trigger you? What if parenting was designed to get you to grow up and become more fully yourself. In this enlightening interview my guest Dr. Shafali sheds light on her own journey as a mother and how parents have a big choice how they raise their children.
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(4:40) Introduction Dr Shefali.
(10:00) Learning not to give.
(12:33) About parenting and raising kids.
(16:30) The process of breaking out of the feeling of unworthiness.
(18:15) Parents dealing with defiant children.
(22:25) Shefali’s overall take on parenting.
(25:25) About self-growth.
(28:15) Dr Shefali’s lessons learned about herself while parenting.
(34:40) Should parents stay married because of their children.
(37:40) Why problems with masculinity are related with how boys are raised.
(43:00) Action step.