Relationship School Podcast

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4 Non-Negotiable Needs Required For a Secure Partnership - 272 0

Jan 29, 2020

Do you have needs? Do you own them? Or do you know you have needs, but then you get scared to ask for them to be met because you're afraid the other person will leave? Understandable. Most people are used to sequestering their needs in exchange for scraps of connection. Please don't do this.

I've done a lot of work with my own needs to determine that I do in fact have them in an adult partnership, and that i'm unwilling to not have them met. I'm also willing to offer these needs to my wife forever. Most people pretend they don't have needs in a partnership because being "needy" is bad in this culture.

But I'm here to let you know you have 4 needs that are not negotiable if you want to really go for it and create a secure partnership over time.

What are they?

1. Feeling safe

2. Feeling seen

3. Feeling soothed

4. Feeling supported/challenged

Think I'm crazy? Just listen as I unpack each one and I think you'll get the idea. Enjoy this short podcast episode and share with a friend who thinks they don't have needs! lol.

Shownotes:

(2:35) The 4 needs for security in a long-term relationship

(4:20) How to recognize an insecure relationship

(7:30) Feeling Safe

(8:15) Feeling Seen

(9:15) Feeling Soothed

(10:20) Felling supported and challenged

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What is Men's Work? - Boysen Hodgson - 271 0

Jan 21, 2020

What is men's work? Most people are unclear what this term means, but once you find out, you'll be cheering on men who are involved in it. In this podcast, I interview one of the key players in the largest men's organizations in the world. We cover some very intimate subjects, including #metoo, fatherhood, and the power of getting together as men.

Shownotes:

(3:35) Introduction

(7:20) About Men’s Work

(10:55) Male relationships inside a family

(14:50) What is Men’s Work

(20:10) How a man can get out of his “Boy code” programming.

(25:40) How trauma causes addictions that keep you stuck

(31:10) How Men’s Work is getting more Popular

(37:50) Thoughts about the #MeToo movement

(43:25) Boysen’s experience as a father

https://mankindproject.org/

https://twitter.com/boysenh?lang=en

(53:15) Action step

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The 2 Most Common Reasons Relationships End - 270 0

Jan 15, 2020

Your closest relationships will end one day. Other than dying, do you know the 2 most common reasons relationships end? Listen here to find out and leave a comment below or in our FB group. This one can get people stirred up.

Shownotes:

(1:55) 2 main reasons why relationships end
(3:30) Outgrowing your partner
(6:20) Not being able to handle yourself or your partner
(11:20) “Falling out of love”

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Making Meaning & Developing Safety & Resiliency Through Relationships - Joan Borysenko - 269 0

Jan 8, 2020

Joan Borysenko is an amazing woman who has some wonderful life lessons around resiliency, making meaning, and developing safety in your relationship life. In this podcast, you'll learn how to dig deep into your self-belief, overcome victimhood, and increase connection. Joan's stories are an inspiring demonstration of the human spirit.

Shownotes:

4:40 Introduction Joan Borysenko
16:45 What makes people resilient in life
24:00 The importance of relationships for healing and growing
36:10 What makes a successful relationship
40:20 How to handle stress and frustration with your partner
47:00 Advice on how to get through difficult times in our lives
56:50 Raising kids in this day and age
https://www.joanborysenko.com/
1:04:45 Action step

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Go to https://www.joanborysenko.com/other/lovemedicine/

And you'll be directed to the free gift.

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