The Youth Initiative High School in Viroqua, WI had the opportunity to ask Jayson 7 powerful questions. Check them out and listen in to hear his response to these amazing student's questions.
In this episode we explore in depth what our signature course DPIR is all about....
Shownotes:
(5:25) Introduction
(12:00) Takeaways of being part of DPIR
(20:30) Memorable classes and subjects of DPIR
(28:30) Why DPIR is worth the investment
(30:20) Final thoughts
Do you feel safe and secure? Seen and understood? Supported and loved? On a daily basis? These are questions you NEED to be asking yourself. Unless you’re perfect, your answers will expose the reasons why it’s a really good idea to enroll in the Deep Psychology of Intimate Relationships (DPIR)® course.
Think about it. Even science proves relationships are the most important link to happiness. Failed relationships with partners, family members and friends are some of the most damaging events in our lives. Divorces and therapists cost a fortune! Don’t just clean up after unsuccessful relationships LEARN TO NAVIGATE THOSE HARDSHIPS IN THE FIRST PLACE!
In this episode, Jayson breaks down all the reasons why DPIR® is so worth it and answers your questions about the course.
What happens when people get together and train and practice relationship skills together for 9 months? This does. Listen in as these 3 people share intimately about their journey, their connection with each other, and how they became relationship coaches.
Shownotes:
(6:05) Introduction Coaches
(9:00) Bryce Bauer
(11:45) Leah Gartner
(16:50) Steve Srotir
(24:10) Experience on DPIR
(27:30) Personal traits that helps to be a better coach
(39:45) Using what they learned on DPIR to help people
(48:30) Experience of learning in a community of likeminded people
Do you know the difference between bad coaching and good coaching? There are four elements of good coaching and you’ll want to know what they are.
SHOWNOTES
(3:05) About good coaching
(4:00) A good coach is a work in progress
(5:30) A good coach has people on their life that challenge and supports them
(6:30) A good coach wants you to get results
(7:30) The client needs to take responsibility and be coachable to get results
(9:45) Hiring a good Relationship Coach
In this 3 part series we explore relationship coaching. First, we start with "bad" relationship coaching and things you need to look out for when hiring a relationship coach. Then we'll dive into "good" relationship coaching. Be sure to pay special attention to what types of coaches not to hire in this one.
Shownotes:
Want to hear the reason his first marriage didn't work out? He bought a house, had a successful job, and thought this is what she wanted. But, it didn't work. Hmmm...
Michael was lost, confused, and going in the wrong direction.
HIs story is similar to a lot of men. Listen in as Michael tells his story and how he turned it all around and finally found "success" in his 2nd marriage.
We also cover the 5 myths, or illusions, of manhood.
If you need a hit of positivity in the midst of challenge, listen to this one.
SHOWNOTES
(3:26) Introduction Michael Taylor
(8:24) How being emotionally unavailable messed with his first marriage
(13:55) The five illusions of manhood
(16:54) How to handle conflict in marriage
(22:35) Support and intimacy with other men
(28:45) Therapy and help from men of different races
(34:34) Optimism about racial issues
In this episode I interview a new friend Brandon Alexander and spontaneously it turned into a pretty intimate conversation about boyhood, manhood, sports and dance, fears, family, love, and connection. I think you'll dig it.
- (2:40) Introduction Brandon Alexander
- (12:00) Indoctrination of mancode is the same in all races
- (17:00) Men in the dancing scene
- (21:00) Lessons learned from not dealing with your fears and frustrations
- (29:10) About the fear of rejection
- (32:50) Choosing between stability / security and Passion / vulnerability
- (41:35) About male intimacy
In this episode, you'll find out "The top 5 things men want from women in a relationship."
And, the #1 answer, and clear leader by far, may surprise you. No... it's not sex.
Listen in to hear what men—who are willing to share their vulnerability—are saying they really want in a relationship. Ellen and I dig into what these brave men are bringing to the relationship conversation and consider what their responses point to.
I also mention in the Podcast, Ellen and I are looking into mentoring a couples mastermind. We want to work directly with a group of couples who are serious about taking their relationships to the next level of fulfillment.
If you're interested, lets us know! Send us an email at info@relationshipschool.com with the subject line "Yes, I'm interested in the upcoming Couples Mastermind with Jayson & Ellen!"
Shownotes:
-4:40 What surveyed men said they want from women
-9:05 Acceptance
-15:30 Support
-17:35 Communication
-20:30 Presence
-26:05 Honesty
This podcast comes from a blog post I wrote for Elephant Journal where I polled over 200 women on my social media channels wit this question:
Hetero-women: What are you wanting from us men in the context of an intimate, monogamous partnership?
Over 200 women responded. I got emotional reading them. So, guys, listen up and take notes.
Soon, we’ll cover what men are saying they want in a partnership.
SHOWNOTES
(2:10) Top 6 things women want from men
(3:56) Willingness
(5:10) Emotionally availability
(7:22) Presence
(9:52) Honesty
(11:18)Safety
(12:20) Self-awareness
(14:47) Action Step
In this episode we explore toxic masculinity and male sexuality. It all starts how we raise our sons. Check it out.
SHOWNOTES:
(0:15) Intro / Recap from last episodes
(2:40) Why talk about toxic masculinity
(5:00) #MeToo movement
(8:28) Why men live in fear of being acused of toxic behaviors
(10:10) Why closed and disconnected men display toxic behavior
(12:33) What happens when we don’t teach our boys about sexuality
(17:11) Understanding the factors that cause toxic behaviors
In this episode I explain how society and culture play an massive role in the indoctrination of men from a young age, which keeps their hearts behind a giant wall. From a young age, boys learn to repress and hide their emotions and their sensitive side in order to belong to the peer group, their family, and avoid rejection and abandonment.
Few experts have studied more marriages - and determined what makes those relationships succeed or fall apart - than Drs. John and Julie Gottman.
The Seattle-based couple and founders of the Gottman Institute are leaders in their field, using decades of case studies to help both new couples and long-term partners communicate, ask the right questions, and find the solutions to keep their relationships intact and running smoothly.
On this episode of the Smart Couple Podcast, the Gottmans discuss their newest book on relationships, some of the biggest flash points for arguments and contempt among couples, and why mutual respect is critical for success in any partnership.
SHOWNOTES
HELPFUL LINKS
If you're serious about wanting to grow and become a better version of yourself you need to know how to ask people to challenge you. Don’t be afraid to get that super valuable feedback!
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Check out the webpage for this Smart Couple Podcast episode at https://relationshipschool.site/podcast226
Your relationship on shaky ground? Learn the five signs of an insecure relationship and some steps you can take to build the secure relationship we all deserve.