I used to try really hard to get people to think I was a good guy. This is another version of the "nice guy syndrome."
And, it had a big cost.
If you are a nice guy, or you are with a "nice guy" you're going to want to listen to this one because it's quite possible the "nice guy" thing is going to really damage your relationship over time (If it hasn't already).
Here are a few of the highlights:
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